I have been struggling on wether to write this blog, I don’t mind being transparent if it may improve the lives of those around me, but my dating woes are a bit complex.However, I am already starting to feel some sort of inner release just by the excitement from this post.
Hello… My Name is Jenee…And I am an On-Line Dater
You got it right, I have once been a member of Black People Meet, EHarmony, Match.com, and even Plenty of Fish. Today is not the day to give a review on these sites but I will say this, all of them have their own pros/cons.
At 1 point about 3 months ago, I got addicted to Online dating. I checked my various sites more than my email. When matches or messages came to my e-mail I read them almost instantly. On-line gave me a thrill, way more of a thrill than regular dating did. I was almost at the point of insanity with regular dating. Men didn’t approach me, when and if they did they were straight DUDs who didnt care obviously. But online dating was my way of dating hundreds of men without ever giving my number out!
1st Eharmony made me answer about 1000 in-depth questions and they matched me with my high school crushed.Needless to say, we hit it off hard. He really showed me a few things and we “dated” for a few months and realized we were better equipped as friends. We were very compatible and I often wonder how out of the thousands of people on eharmony we were matched. Call it coincidence or call it fate.but we are still great friends to this day. The details to this ordeal still makes me sad….lol
I went on a few dates with others I met on various sites and none of the dates went any further than a few phone calls,or dinners or nights on the town.. Until I met “Him”For months I kept pushing him away, I wasn’t quite sure about him. He was from NYC, a Sigma and he wasn’t my usual corporate thug. But I’m a firm believer that When You Want Something You Have Never Had You Must Do What You Have Never Done. So, I gave him a chance and yall he is courting me! He hasn’t tried to rush anything and is truly trying to get to know me, ya girl is no longer single! 
Needless to say, On-line dating has been a life changing experience and I am glad I did it! I’m an advocate for all of the above websites, there isn’t much too loose from trying!! So for all the black people wonder, there are hundreds of fine, successful men with no kids, no drama and who want to get married online dating. They don’t club on the regular or have a lot of issues. They just want someone to love!
Tags: dating, eharmony, match, men, online dating, Relationships
