Love is Easy; Relationships Are Hard

As I sit here on this cold and rainy day in Atlanta I’m reading “the Conversation” by Hill Harper. This book is powerful beyond words and that combined with “Act Like a Lady Think Like a Man” are my favorite books of the year. Mainly because they expound upon the facts of how hard it is to be in a relationships based on such easy rules.

Let me break it down in relationship to Twitter. I’m a very active twitter user. I have over 1k followers and I tweet over 30times a day. I ♡ tweeting because it’s an open exchange of peoples inner thoughts and doings. Long story short, Twitter is so easy, it’s nearly impossible to explain. But when you give the tool of twitter to the right person, it can move them to say things they never said and make all kinds of friends they never even would have been introduced to!

That’s how relationships are. The innermost workings of relationships are very easy. Steve Harvey said it best when he said ” All Men want is, support,♡ and the “Cookie”. Those 3 things sound so easy but they are fundamentally the same things that makes a man leave a woman. She’s not supportive of him and his needs. Men don’t want to admit it but there is nothing better than a woman they can tell their dreams to. Someone they can tell that although they have a job as a mechanic being a teacher one day isn’t a far-fetched idea.  They want a woman who feels like they need them. A woman who goes to her man instead of going to her girlfriends when she has issues in her life.

Men will always “protect, provide and profess” in the words of Steve Harvey.  Providing isn’t about who makes more money it’s about offering emotional, financial and physical support. Being there is 1 of the most important things about being in a relationship. The companionship that a woman provides a man is indescribable.
I’ve heard it time and time again, it matters more to a man if a woman makes herself “available” to him. Not nagging or demanding things from him but creating an open line of communication. Being vulnerable and allowing him to provide and protect you.
I’m not a man and I’m very single so I don’t know it all, but I do know this; ♡ is the only real connective that allows us to not live and die alone. ♡ gives us purpose beyond ourselves. We all live just to be loved eternally.

When did it become so hard to ♡? When did the complexities of our beings make it hard for someone to ♡ us? When do we wake up and realize that ♡ is so pure it heals hurts and provides us with all of our wishes. Why don’t you understand how easy it is to ♡ someone and allow someone to ♡ u. ♡ is easy, relationships are hard.