Have you ever wondered why people treat you like shit? Have you ever wondered why you haven’t found 1 person that really understands you? Thats because your actions are contradicting your desires! Do you treat yourself the way you want others to treat you? Do you complain that all men are dogs but then wonder why you are single?
When u want to attract something into your life, make sure your actions don’t contradict your desires! Whatever you want you can have if you have a positive attitude about it! How can someone genuinely love you if you don’t love yourself? How can someone come into your life if you don’t allow them room to? When we close ourselves off to the world we are contradicting the fact that we want to meet new people or we want to have successful relationships.
For the longest I wondered why every relationship I was in was not a good one, men would cheat on me, lie to me and manipulate me in every way possible. I would always wonder was I really that bad of a person that they wouldn’t want to treat me the right way. But truth of the matter is, I was allowing them to treat me that way. You can’t control how you feel but you can always control how someone treats you. No matter how far they pushed I didn’t love myself enough to let them go.
When I was finally happy with myself and had a sincere peace of mind in my very own being God sent a man that loved and cared for me into my life. I loved myself so much that God sent a man that couldn’t help but to love me for me! We have to be willing if God is going to move in our lives. Our hearts, our thoughts and our actions have to show God that we don’t just want a mate or a job but that we are willing to work hard at making sure the gift he gives us is successful!
The only job that you have in life is you! It isn’t about what others believe its about what you believe, how you feel about yourself and not contradicting it with your actions! How can you say “I’m fat” but then wonder why everyone around you talks about your weight. Once you are confident in your own weight, height God will open up the effect. Your thoughts are the cause and you must be willing to open your heart to loving yourself.
Unless you fill yourself up with LOVE first than you won’t have anything to give to anyone! Learn to love yourself harddd and fully! We are responsible for our own happiness, when you are happy you are a joy to be around! We have many aspects of our lives and personalities that are strong & weak. We make sacrifices for others but it’s totally up to you! When you make sure you don’t sacrifice your own happiness and make your own being is whole the overflowing of blessings. Make a choice to inhabit the strongest u. Your life will reflect the choice!
