If you know me, you know I love writing and talking about spiritual and “Deep” things but sometimes I get tired and want to be “ghetto”. However, Holy Spirit has her own way of making sure I write blogs for other people and not just my own crazy desires.. lol Lately I have wanted to speak about desires of the heart and the spiritual connections we share.
I live by the quote “People are sent into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime” I believe that everyone is sent into your life for a reason but not always for a lifetime. Sometimes we have messed up our future by allowing seasonal people to remain in our lives for a lifetime.
Mixing seasonal people with life expectations can create major disappointment. It’s just like drug users, when they get clean they don’t need to go back to being around other drug dealers. Same thing in our lives! We have to know when to fight for the people that need to be in our lives and leave those alone who don’t deserve to be in our lives.
Its hard with the human eye and feeling to determine who is just a SEASONAL personal and who is a LIFETIME person. Sometimes I get confused but when a person shows themselves to you believe them. If a person does not make you feel good when you are around them, or they aren’t accepting of who you are then you need to leave. I have always been alert to facts that you either accept your friends as they are or don’t be their friends at all.
When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed outwardly or inwardly. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, or to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally, or even spiritually. They are sent in your life by God! They are there for a reason, you need them to be. Then, without any wrong doing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die, Sometimes they just walk away. Sometimes they act up or out and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled; their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and it is now time to move on.
LIFETIME, relationships teach you a lifetime of lessons; those things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person/people (anyway);, and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas in your life. Those seasonal people are the ones you love for a life time and continue to grow with forever.
I’m working on gaining knowledge and allowing God to send me lifetime people instead of always assuming they are seasonal people..
GREAT POST SIS!! I think learning the reason & seasons with ppl in our lives is the biggest lesson about life that we always learn from. I’ve experienced ppl walking away or just fading away time after time and each time I seem to learn something new about myself. Thanks for sharing!
Hi there – We are part of God’s consciousness –
We have all we need to create our own reality, time and time again.
Take care.
this is very inspirational for me right now,because i’m at a point in my life where I;m just starting to find myself,and I fell in love for the very first time when I was 17 and i’m still in love with this man,he has hurt me many many times and I have hurt him but when were together its like all of the bad things go away and were perfect but when were apart things are really bad, and I’m just confused on whether or not to let him go out of my life because I love him so much and he has taught me so many things about myself that I probably never would have known or realized,he taught me how to love,and I just dont want to let him go,but then again Im tired of all of the stress and I just dont know what to do
Girl, we need to talk away from my blog! Email me!!!!